I have a kind of large wooden sleigh bed like this: http://danekworld.com/spencer/sca/red_maple_inn/images/duck_room_sleigh_bed.jpg To paint the dark brown or black high gloss. Perhaps even hairspray. Should I sand? Do I need to prepare before the paint? And need a separate coat of polyurethane? What about the metal, I use a different primer to the metal or roughen up with the sander as well or can I paint next? Any advice for working to make this work? You may leave the bare metal and just record it off. Is the spot sanding THEN? How the stain to adhere? The gravel bed is not already and it is unfinished. He was a second-hand, hand-me-down from a friend, and has an end of school already but it is solid wood and not metal so I think an arena should do very well.